Day 1 – From Measuring to Leveling

Read: Ecclesiastes 4:9

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.”

Devotional Thought:

Just like a builder uses a tape measure before starting construction, God’s Word gives us the standard to measure our relationships. But as we continue to build, we also need a level—to ensure we are staying aligned with God and each other. Being in alignment means checking in, adjusting attitudes, and being willing to grow together.

Reflection Questions:

Are you building your relationships based on God’s Word or personal preference?

Are you in alignment with God and others right now?

Prayer:

“God, help me not only measure by Your Word, but live in alignment with Your Spirit. Help me walk closely with You and with those You’ve placed in my life.”

Day 2 – Alone or Together?

Read: Ecclesiastes 4:10

“If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”

Devotional Thought:

Solomon reminds us that life in isolation is dangerous. Even in marriage or family, we can feel alone when we’re out of alignment. We need people who can pick us up when we fall. That starts with vulnerability, communication, and presence—not perfection. Show up, speak up, and lift each other up.

Reflection Questions:

Have I shared where I’m struggling or ‘fallen’ with anyone?

How can I be more present with my spouse, family, or friends this week?

Prayer:

“Lord, when I fall, help me to reach out. Give me humility to admit my need and courage to walk in honest relationship with others.”

Day 3 – Better Together with Christ

Read: Ecclesiastes 4:12

“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

Devotional Thought:

A cord of three strands is not easily broken. It’s not enough to just be back-to-back with our spouse or friends—we need Jesus at the center. When Christ is involved, He strengthens us, stabilizes us, and helps us endure seasons of loneliness, hardship, and growth. Unity in marriage or friendship is possible when our hearts are united with Him.

Reflection Questions:

Is Jesus truly at the center of my closest relationships?

How can we invite Christ into our marriage/friendship this week?

Prayer:

“Jesus, be the third strand in my relationships. Bring unity where there’s division and help us to walk together in Your strength.”